Your decision will either lead you to more problems or to the solution. 

We are all making decisions in our relationships. Some of those decisions are either empowering or disempowering our relationships. 

There are people whose relationships are taking  a negative turn as a result of varying factors. Meanwhile, there are others under similar scenarios that are using the seeming challenge as a tool for strengthening their relationships.

How do I know my relationship is taking a negative turn?

1. Disagreements increasing over time.
2. Finding it more and more difficult to agree on views/opinion
3. Progressive feelings of irritation by your partner’s action.
4. Not looking forward to going home after close of business(For the married).
5. Not having freedom of expression when with your partner.

How do I trace where it started from?

1. Think about when you just met your partner.
2. Try to remember what caught your attention.
3. What were those things that drew you close to your partner?
4. What are the things you were doing that strengthened your friendship?
5. Were you moved by love at first sight or it took time to build?
6. What were you doing and what was your partner equally doing that got you to the point of making a life time commitment to this person(For the married)?
7. At what point did these fascinating traits started fading away?
8. What do you think could be responsible for this?
9. Which part of the problem did you contribute?
10. What do you think you can do to improve on your part in this relationship?
11. What do you think your partner can do to improve on his or her part in this relationship?
12. What will achieving this takes from you?
13. Are you willing to give this relationship what it takes to get it back to its blissful state?

Let your partner partake of this exercise as well and agree to sit together to have conversation along these lines.Your decision will either lead you to more problems or to the solution. 
Therefore, agree and work with your partner to make healthy decision that will enhance your bond and subsequently lead to inspiring relationship.

If you are finding it difficult to make progress and you are willing to have professional counseling, then send a mail to;

bamideleagbogun@gmail.com or

uwabeloved@gmail.com

It is always my believe and stand that;

“Relationship Bliss Is Possible If We Are Willing To Make It Work”

#RelationshipBlissIsPossible