The trivial issue in relationships could develop into major issues if not addressed early.

There is the saying; “A little yeast can leaven the whole lump if not dealt with and nipped in the bud.

As insignificantly small in terms of proportion yeast is, its resultant effect is significant. 

In relationships, there are little traits/habits you might have that may not help the relationship ultimately. Traits or habits like; not being accountable, insensitivity, insecurity, pride, etc. The list goes on….

Are you in courtship or married? 

You may want to check these in your life and that of your partner. Different areas play up in varying degrees. What is predominant in one might not be for the other relationship. 

A. 

I. Do you operate transparency in your relationship? 

II. Is your partner aware of what goes on in your life? 

III. Do you usually get input on decisions you make from your partner?

B. 

I. Can you easily identify when your partner is in any mood swing?

II. Can you say you easily discover changes that your partner go through from time to time?

III. Can you confidently say what make your partner angry as well as happy?

C. 

I. Can you genuinely say that you are happy when good things happen to your partner(example like promotion, earning more than you do, looks more likable by people around, etc)?

II. Do you feel threatened by your partner success?

III. Can you allow your partner be praised for an idea raised by him/her without feeling bad?

D.

I. Do you find it easy to admit wrong when you are wrong?

II. Do you find it easy to apologize when you go wrong?

III. Can you accommodate an opposing opinion especially when it is superior to yours?

The state of your courtship is directly related to the outcome of your responses to the questions asked. The more yes you respond to, the healthier your relationship most likely will be.

There are twelve(12) questions in all. 

Getting Your Result:

1. Sum your total yes.
2. Divide your total by twelve(12)
3. Multiply your answer by 100.
4. The answer represent the percentage of the likely state of your relationship.

These are basics, though not exhaustive, you need to pay attention to. It can help your relationship take a progressive turn. 

Failing to pay attention to these basics has negative consequences on relationships.

As simple as those traits sound, they are very critical to the success of any relationship. It looks like the little yeast that has the ability to leaven the whole lump.

Therefore, watch it and make sure that issues don’t escalate. 

Try to resolve issues between yourselves and if it is proving difficult, engage the help of a professional counselor.

Always remember, relationship bliss is possible.

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