The health of a tree is known by the quality of nutrients it takes into its stem and the branches. It is not obvious to the eye, yet it is critical to whether it will be fruitful or not. In a similar way, the person you want to marry should be seen beyond the physical attributes. The outlook runs on what kind of information the partner imbibed from past experiences. The quality of information a partner has would always influence the quality of decisions he or she makes in a relationship. This should put a responsibility on you to understand the wiring system of your partner (How does s(he) perceive your love? Why does s(he) behave in a particular way? What forms this person’s perspectives about life? These are some of the key areas to focus on when you are about starting a relationship. If you are currently in a relationship, you might want to look at these as well to have a better handle on the current reality.

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