Spice means to make something more exciting or interesting. Other words that imply same are; revitalize, galvanize, electrify, give a bountiful or add some colour to.

In your relationship (single or married), the seemingly little things count a great deal in its impact on your relationship.  The saying that; “A little leaven leavens the whole lump holds true. The little additions or adjustments that can bring about great changes to the quality of your relationship (single or married) are indicated below:

1. Use of kind and romantic words for each other; Words paint pictures in the heart of your partner. Negative words will paint negative pictures and subsequently negative feelings while positive words will paint positive images and subsequently positive feelings. The one that is registered in the heart of your partner is the one that will influence his or her attitude towards you. The attitude displayed by partners towards each other will go a long way in determining the health in their relationship.
2. Appreciate your partner’s worth in your life; you’ve got to let your partner evidently see his or her contributing value in your life. This should not be seen as flattery but genuine value of his or worth in your life. You have to express this genuinely from your heart. Your partner should be made to see how he or she has added colour to your life.
3. Give occasional surprises. Write poems and love notes, give gifts, celebrate special dates or occasions etc. It’s about throwing beautiful surprises once in a while which would add spices to your relationship.

4. Be deliberate about being a good listener. Do not be out to enforce your will in the relationship. Be there to       listen more in order to optimize your giving. Giving sometimes can be born out of selfish nature unconsciously. You might think you are giving your best in the relationship; meanwhile, your partner’s perception is that you are only after your interest.

As a married person, try to let go of routines in your bedroom. Be a little more creative and innovative. Do something new so that you don’t switch into monotonous mode that doesn’t carry life.

Our relationship shall experience a new life. It shall be electrified. The previously dormant relationships will receive fresh fire and be spiced up.

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