What a scene to witness where partners engage in an argument that increases in intensity just to reach an agreement on issues. Scenarios like this sometimes make each person right in his or her position. A relationship thrives more with collaboration, not independent strengths standing apart. The individual weaknesses could make a mess of whatever strength each person possesses.

When two separate positions are maintained, frustrations come to play, especially when the expected team formation to produce a common good is not working out.

A relationship where a rigid position becomes the trend can bring about strife. When strife is not dealt with, it has the possibility of inflicting pain and bitterness. Scenarios like these can influence decisions that have a lasting negative impact on the relationship.

What can I do?

• Accept you are different. You cannot always share similar views or opinion.
• Be willing to be teachable and giving to necessary adaptation.
• Look closely to see the need for you to change. Humble yourself enough to see strengths in your partner where you are weak. This will help you leverage on the strength of your partner to cover up for your weakness.
• Celebrate each other’s strengths instead of being threatened by them.