What you know currently does not necessarily mean it is all there is to life. Be careful therefore not to be quick to judge another person’s differing opinion. It might simply mean you need to learn a different way to see things. What happens in a relationship with partners “A” and “B” does not necessarily have to be the same in a relationship with partners “C” and “D” Therefore, don’t use another person’s template of doing things to judge your own or another person. Be comfortable in your own skin and enjoy the uniqueness of your relationship. The uniqueness of each relationship is premised on the uniqueness of each person in that relationship. Attempting to use another person’s template of doing things to judge yours actually means acting in ignorance. It would only cause you to go through disappointments and frustrations. Therefore, tell yourself and act on the mindset that:

1. You are different.
2. Your partner is different.
3. What your union with your partner produces will be different from the one produced by others.
4. Enjoy your uniqueness because it is peculiar to your relationship. Do not envy others what others are wishing to have from your relationship.

You will experience bliss!