Happiness is a personal choice, not a marital outcome. Do not go into marriage thinking marriage will give you happiness. It is your choice to be happy as an individual first that brings the desired happiness to the marriage.
Some people share the view that marriage brings happiness, irrespective of their state before marriage.
I would say that is not true. You cannot give what you don’t have. One will be in error assuming that marriage will change an unhappy single person to be a happily married person.
If you are not happy as a single person, marriage is not a guarantee that you will be happy.
Being happy is an internal affair, generated from within. It is a state of being. Sometimes, past experiences might put us in that unhappy state.
I would encourage that you do all that you can to maintain a state of happiness or joy before diving into marriage.

HOW?

1. Tell yourself that happiness is your personal responsibility.
2. Refuse to leave your happiness in the hands of people. What they say or think of you should not determine the state of your being. You can pay attention to feedback, but should not be allowed to step your joy or happiness.
3. Allow God to help you because there are some cases that you might not be able to handle humanly.
   In case you are not sure how to go about this, you can reach me on any of my social media platforms. We can take it up from there

You will experience bliss!

@deleagbogun