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Effective Living 2

Posted by : Dele Agbogun Posted date : July 24, 2012 In Marriage 0

To be effective, you must live a life that is consistent and makes you predictable to a large extent; predictable in a positive mode. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. it is better people don’t like you for who you are than they like you for who you are not. Don’t live a double standard life where people are confused as to what you really stand for. The saying that; ‘If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything’ holds true. While you try to exhibit tenacity and vigor in realizing your purpose, there is always a place for flexibility and dynamism. Life is dynamic and not a straight jacketed one. Therefore, be ready to make changes where necessary. The fact that you see what your future looks like and you have a good idea of how to get there, doesn’t mean the “how to” cannot be altered. Your varying phases in life will influence your decisions on what to do. This will ultimately affect the outcomes of those phases. Hence the environment and the trend of the moment go a long way in affecting your approach or style. This therefore place a demand on you to be flexible.

The change in the seasons or phases of our life will require diligence, discipline, forthrightness and resilience to bring about success in one’s chosen area of purpose or area of influence. It is in the light of this that your life can be effective and also able to make an indelible mark in your generation. You should bear it in mind that you will either be measured or judged for the life you have lived. You are going to be remembered for the solution you have provided or the problems created during your life time. We must live an effective life of sacrifice to ensure that we don’t live our world the same way we met it. Each generation must be an improvement on the previous one. Decide today that you will improve your world!