Be driven by the picture of the end in whatever you do in life.

When it comes to relationships, keep your eyes focused on the picture of the preferable future you want for yourself and your family.

When you fix your attention on the future, it defines what you do. This will subsequently help you with the choice of partner that will fit into your world.

Outward attributes are not enough. Inner attributes are better to be considered than the outward ones, even though it is best to have both. You need to look closely into your potential partner’s life from these two perspectives.

You need to look at his or her:

1. Past experiences.
2. Upbringing
3. Value system
4. Doctrinal mindsets
5. Cultural background 
6. Level of maturity.
7. Vision for life

It is not limited to the above stated points. However, it will guide you in making wise choices.

When you are able to provide answers to these points, you should have enough frame of reference to make quality decision. It is not an exam script that you just answer and claim that you are ready to marry. No, no, no.

It doesn’t work that way. You have to be deliberate, putting every sentiment aside because marital journey is supposed to be a life time commitment.

If you are currently in a relationship and you are not thinking of going through counseling, please do. Engaging a counselor for Premarital counseling will be profitable for you. The much you thought you knew will become inadequate “IF” you open your heart for the counseling.

If you are already married and you are wondering how to get out of the current challenges in your home, kindly seek the intervention of a professional counselor. 

If you don’t know anyone around you, then you can contact me via senseportal@gmail.com or WhatsApp message via 0901 152 3936

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