Sensitivity is very important to me. I will strive to understand my partner’s viewpoint and not be selfish in my dealings.

1. In a scale of 1 to 10, how will you rate your sensitivity towards your partner?
2. What efforts are you making to see your partner’s view on any issue you have to deal with?

To be sensitive is to be responsive to the need for change. It is being quick to respond to slight changes.

It also mean to be tuned in to the needs of your partner.

There is a need to develop the ability to notice the changes that take place in your partner.

I learnt some lessons at the early stage of our marriage. One of those lessons was to pay attention to the changes in my wife’s look. I never complimented her anytime she made a new hairstyle because I never saw the need to until she confronted me about it. It took the confrontation for me to see the need for that. In your case, it may be the outlook, behavioral changes, acts of kindness etc. in your partner. You need to take note of these changes and compliment the efforts taken for the change.

You can be the guy or the lady guilty of this. Be more deliberate and tell yourself you will be sensitive to outlooks, acts, moods and seasons. This is critical to enhancing your relationship.

DeleAgbogun 

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