I leverage my partner’s strengths to achieve more than I would do when done alone.

Have you noticed among some couples that one person’sstrength may be the other person’s weakness? I am sure God did this for a reason. Opposites attract a lot of times. I believe this was designed so that the two individuals may complement each other and form a formidable team.

Ours is a classic example. Hubby is very good in subjects like Maths, Physics and Chemistry, had A1 in his final secondary school exams (WAEC) while I shiver at the mention of those subjects.

But we have used this strength of his to our advantage in the family. Our children benefit so much from this and are grateful for it. 

So, tell yourself:

I will not be intimidated by my partner’s strengths or gifts. 

I will not be jealous and I won’t try to downplay it. 

I will celebrate it, enjoy it and use it to the full advantage of our relationship.

Enjoy bliss!

Uwa Agbogun