I am proactive in my relationship and I collaborate with my partner to make things work in our relationship.
What sort of value can you say you are bringing into the relationship with your partner.
Do you believe in team building in a relationship where parties work together to achieve common goal?
Being proactive means making things happen instead of waiting for things to happen to you.
I used to be under the illusion that because my husband is the “head”, so he should “initiate” all ideas needed by the family. Hmmm… I have since woken up.
Male or female, we all have brains. Our spouses are not sole custodians of ideas. If God gives you an idea, discuss with your partner and initiate if need be. Don’t wait until the “man” or the woman acts. We are all stakeholders! Act in the best interest of your family/relationship.
Over the years, I have learnt to collaborate better and even initiate action in various areas; romance, (don’t forget I am romantic), savings, investment ideas, giving, vacations, parenting etc.
So tell yourself, I will no longer be reactive, I will make things happen; I will collaborate with my partner; *ALL TO THE BEST INTEREST OF MY FAMILY.*
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