Conflict is an inevitable experience when you are in a relationship(Single or Married). Sometimes I wonder why some people either consciously or unconsciously have this notion that conflict is a bad thing to happen in a relationship. Some have this unrealistic expectation that there is coming a time when conflicts in their relationship will be completely eradicated. Hhmn! Funny you might say, right? The real issue might not necessarily be the conflict itself, but how parties deal with issues that lead to conflicts. 

You may be asking; how can I handle these conflicts and turn them into an advantage instead of allowing it to create bottle necks?

1. Accept it is part of your maturing process.
2. Accept the reality that it should be analyzed objectively without sentiments.
3. Accept responsibility to play your part.
4. Readiness to be flexible(adapting and accommodating).
5. Readiness to bring value to the relationship.
6. Readiness to work together as a team.
7. Readiness to share interests and values toward achieving bliss in your relationship.

Each of the seven points noted earlier can form the basis for discussion for both parties.
Ask yourselves from statement one down to seven whether they described you as one that is ready to accept responsibilities. If you have major gaps after your discussion, you may want to talk to a counselor.
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Always remember that relationship bliss is possible “IF” you are willing to make it work.

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