Wednesday , 2 December 2020
Category Archives: General
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Working With the End in View
The ultimate goal of a thing defines what is done in the process of achieving that goal. Imagine not having a goal. What is done in the process becomes skewed. In a similar vein, when the goal of a relationship or marriage is not known or defined, you might likely observe lots of unresolved conflicts on a frequent basis among... Read more »
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JUST CHECKING ON YOU
How are you doing today? Each day brings opportunity to decide how it ends. What you put into the day will determine what you get at the end of the day. The reality of your relationship today are products of choices you made yesterday. Instead of going another day without being intentional, try to do something different today in order... Read more »
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No Relationship Experience Bliss Overnight
We evolved from our raw states to where we are today through a process that will put huge responsibility on you to sacrifice and give to that relationship. The refined/polished man or woman most times is already married. The refined man or woman in most instances is in his or her raw state that you have to work on to... Read more »
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What Are You Doing With Your Seeds?
It is not their birthdays. Just pondering over how a delicate clean slate heart baby and toddlers are gradually evolving into young lady and young men respectively. Who they are becoming is first and foremost the product of what my wife and I are putting into them from childhood. What picture are you and your partner painting in your home... Read more »
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Thoughts and Your Reality
Thoughts are like seeds. When entertained, it can go into the soil of the heart and subsequently produce fruits. Ultimately the outcome will be a semblance of the sown seed in multiple forms. Entertain fear, reap worriesEntertain doubt, reap confusionEntertain the right understanding and confidence, reap unlimited possibilities. In relationships, be mindful of what you allow into your heart to... Read more »
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Why The Difference?
Have you ever wondered why people sometimes misinterpret your actions? In a situation where you feel you are exhibiting boldness, someone is saying you are arrogant. For someone else, he or she is taking time to analyze a situation before taking action, the person is termed as too slow. Where are all these coming from? Well, sometimes it is about... Read more »
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Information is powerful!
What you know currently does not necessarily mean it is all there is to life. Be careful therefore not to be quick to judge another person’s differing opinion. It might simply mean you need to learn a different way to see things. What happens in a relationship with partners “A” and “B” does not necessarily have to be the same... Read more »
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Maintaining the Right State of Heart
You might not have control over what goes on around you, but you have over the state of your heart. When you allow negative emotion to overwhelm you, you are actually yielding control to the environment or the people causing it. Yes, the situation of life may not go as anticipated, but you have a choice of allowing it to... Read more »
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Day 21 (21-Day Affirmations)
I resolve that the smiles and joy we enjoy as partners in this relationship will get better over time. I have seen cases where the beginnings of the relationships were sweeter and more fun than when they got older. I hear people say the sparks or thrills are no longer there. Some wonder what happened? They simply find it difficult to make things progressively better. The truth is, smiles and joy are the outcomes... Read more »
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Day 19 (21-Day Affirmations)
I accommodate my partner’s views and interests for the ultimate good of our family. Differences, are said, not to be deficiencies. Differences in our personalities and experiences will bring in divergent views and interests. Our differences are meant to add colours to our relationships. It would be very frustrating for me to believe and hope that my partner would act in similar ways like I would act in all situations. Our teamwork despite our... Read more »
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