When purpose is unified, it reduces unnecessary dissipation and increases the productivity level of both parties.
As a single person, you might equally be asking; how can I make the right choice for the right person to marry?
This is the third and final part to this discussion. We are looking at how a single person can make an informed decision.
Settle down and make a list for yourself.
Write down your life time goals under the following:
Career ( where will you be in your career or business 5, 10 and 15 years from now)
Family (What kind of picture do you have for your home, children, the location of abode, values of the family, etc).
Social (How do you plan to stay sociable? Eg, family recreational activities, holidays, movies, outings, building healthy and new relationships, etc)
Spiritual (What belief system do you want to operate in your home? How much of God’s involvement do you want in your eventual home? What spiritual state do you want to keep as a person in your home? etc)
Physical (How Healthy are you physically, How do you intend to keep fit? What type of feeding lifestyle do you want to operate etc)
When you are done making this list, it gives you an idea of your “World Map”. You will agree with me that the kind of system you chose to operate in your world will inform the kind of person and people you will give entry visas to come into your space. I
Once these are done, even though it is not exhaustive, you will be in a position to make better choices than someone without a plan or strategy.
In all of these, single or married, you will need the help of God to help you clear hazy picture in order to make an informed decision on who to marry.
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