“Two people at different heights have different ranges of view; these heights define what you see and subsequently your attitude. It impacts on your perspective to various issues in life”
The longer-range viewer most likely sees more, and has a wider horizon with which to make decisions. But the person that shuffles along with eyes on the ground will obviously be limited in options to make decisions. This will also impart on the quality of decisions made. When this is viewed within the context of marriage, you will realize that it affects the level of maturity of the parties involved. It imparts on:
a. The level of adaptability and flexibility of the parties involved in the relationship, and the ability to be open to suggestions and the willingness to accept change. b. The attitude towards issues between the parties; petty or good understanding. Ability to identify what is priority over trivial issues; you will be able to separate issues from personality, making the most of any situation that arise. c. The ability to walk through problems and still maintain your sanity. You don’t find yourself taking out your hurts from past experiences on your partner. d. Your sensitivity to the needs of the other person; e.g. quality time, mood changes, and much more.
I have seen this play out in relationships, both married and intending couples. In some cases, it is about who’s opinion MUST stand concerning an issue. Some other times, it is how to deal with an issue (what should be by the time we are married, method of raising kids, handling financial matters etc.) The broader your perspective and understanding, the more likely you will succeed in your relationship. My advice therefore is this; commit your life to someone whose level of maturity you draw inspiration from. If you allow sentiments to guide your decision-making process, you may regret it later on in life; but if you boldly take a step, facing the seeming consequences, you will most likely enjoy your relationship later.
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