In making a choice of who to settle with maritally, what drives the intended partner is a critical variable to consider.
Your choice should not be limited to the physical outlook and current material/financial possessions.
What your intended partner had installed in his or her mind from past experiences will determine how the relationship will be handled.
Work at having enough time to go through premarital counseling before saying “I Do”
It will help you connect and understand where this person is headed in life and also know his or her values.
Be open to unlearn in order to relearn. Our lives are accompanied with things that require pruning in order to make us better.
Be ready to help each other to achieve progress in those identified areas to work on. Your partner will need your support in those areas that you appeared better. It should not be used to look down on your partner, but should be an opportunity to help make your partner better.
Work as a team with the desirable picture of the end in mind. The outcome of solo efforts put together cannot match collective effort. You will always produce better results working together to achieve a common goal than the sum of individual efforts put together. It’s tougher working together as a team than working in silos. There is the tendency to want to go the easier route. But the ultimate result would most likely not be as good as collective efforts.
Cultivate a mentoring relationship in the area of marriage. Be accountable to the carefully chosen family you intend to make your mentors. It will help you rest on their shoulders to see farther and also help you to avoid from fallen into some pot holes they might have experienced on their own previous journey. It could only help you travel faster with minimal errors in your decisions.
Go through counseling session. If you are married and did not do counseling before marriage, I would suggest you consider doing post marital counseling. If you are not sure of which counselor to talk to, you can reach out to me on any of my social media platforms.
Start taking action from today. You can start experiencing improvement “IF” you move from mere gathering information to applying them.
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